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Leaders, Stop Using Negativity To Get An Outcome. Use Love And Positivity

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What makes a good leader? This is a question that's been debated for as long as humans have existed. People have tried to answer this question by looking at their own personal experiences with leaders or reading about other people's experiences with leaders in various fields. The answer seems to be different for everyone based on the situation they've been in and their perspective on what makes a good leader. Even though we all view it differently, there are some things that most successful leaders share in common:

Successful leaders don't tell you what to do. They encourage the best in you.


If you're going to be a leader, you should know that your role is not to tell people what to do. It's actually quite the opposite: it's about enabling others to succeed. Good leaders help people find their own answers, inspire them to do their best work and demonstrate positivity as a role model. They don't follow the traditional model of leadership, where they give orders and expect everyone else to just do what they say because they're in charge.

Leadership isn't just about managing people; it's also about managing yourself — owning up when things go wrong or taking responsibility if something goes right. Telling someone else how they should do something might make them feel good in the moment but ultimately won't get results without further thought on how they can improve or change their methods or attitudes (which may require some patience).

To have a great future, you need to believe in your own ideas, your vision, and not just other people's ideas or vision.


Believing in your own ideas, your vision, and not just other people's ideas or vision is a key part of being a good leader. If you want to have a great future, it's crucial that you believe in yourself and your vision for the future. Believing in your own ideas and having a clear understanding of what makes them valuable will help keep you focused on achieving success by using those ideas.

It's also important not to follow other people’s visions if they’re not what you want for yourself or the company. For example: if someone tells you they want to be rich, but all they do is work hard at their job all day long without any focus on making more money than their current salary range allows…then chances are it’s not going to happen! Instead, ask yourself how can I achieve my goals? Then take action based on how many hours per week are required for this goal."

If you want to be a leader, first you need to move from being a follower.


You must be willing to take risks, be open to learning and allow yourself to fail. In times of great need and stress, you may feel like you have no choice but to sit back and watch the world fall apart around you. But this isn't an option! People are counting on you not only as a leader, but also as an individual who has decided that they want to make a difference in this world by helping others.

You'll never get anywhere if you don't ask for help when needed or try new things when possible! The key is figuring out where your limits lie: what kind of things can make someone uncomfortable? What makes them uncomfortable? And where do those limits lie within themselves? It's all about finding out what works best for each individual situation without compromising integrity or personal values along the way (and yes there will be times when this means making difficult decisions).

A good leader needs to be a constant learner. Leaders that aren't constantly learning, will soon become irrelevant.


The more you learn, the more you can help others. The more you understand about other people, the better equipped you'll be to lead them. As a leader, your goal should be to not only build something great for yourself but also help others achieve greatness as well.

Learning is a lifelong process and it never stops. You can't put off learning until tomorrow because there's always something new that will make your work easier—whether it's in business or life itself!

Good leaders are focused on the journey of their team and not their own success or the success of the company.


Good leaders are focused on the journey of their team and not their own success or the success of the company.

Leadership is about helping people grow and develop, helping them reach their potential, and being the best they can be.

Great leaders are able to figure out what they don't know and find someone who can help them with that knowledge gap.


Great leaders are able to figure out what they don't know and find someone who can help them with that knowledge gap.

A major part of leadership is learning something new, but sometimes we get stuck in our ways and try to do everything ourselves. We think that if we hire people, they won't be as loyal or dedicated as those who work for us directly.

That's because most of the time, great leaders have the ability to recognize their own weaknesses and strengths (and others' weaknesses and strengths), so they're able to ask for help when needed.

Leaders inspire action through their behavior rather than demanding it from people through their words or rules.


If you want people to take action, lead by example. The best way to get someone to do something is not by demanding it of them or insisting that they follow your rules. It’s by inspiring them through your actions and showing them what they can achieve if they apply themselves.

Leadership is more about making sure that your team takes action than it is about being the boss. If you want better results from yourself and others, then stop focusing so much energy on enforcing rules and setting up processes for others to follow. Instead, focus on doing great things as an example for others to follow—and then let them do the same!

The most effective leaders don't command respect; instead, they inspire respect through their behavior rather than demanding it from people through their words or rules (which often fall flat anyway).

The best leaders are able to empower others by listening, asking questions, and then helping the team navigate what they've learned towards making the most informed decision possible for everyone involved.


The best leaders are able to empower others by listening, asking questions, and then helping the team navigate what they've learned towards making the most informed decision possible for everyone involved.

Listening is a powerful tool. It shows you care about what's going on with your team and helps you understand where their heads are at. The more you know about people's challenges and concerns, the more effective you'll be at resolving them. However, listening isn't just important in times of conflict; it can be used proactively as well! Asking questions demonstrates that you're interested in being an active participant in whatever discussion or project might be underway at any given time. When someone feels listened to—and understood—they're likely to trust that person more than if they feel ignored or dismissed by their leader (or anyone else).

The next step after listening is asking thoughtful questions so that everyone involved has an opportunity to express themselves fully without fear of feeling judged or shut down by other members of the group."

Leaders who say "I'm sorry" when they mess up, show humility and vulnerability which makes them more human and relatable.


Leaders who say "I'm sorry" when they mess up, show humility and vulnerability which makes them more human and relatable.

This is a great example of the power of saying 'Sorry':

  • It shows that you're human—you aren't perfect and you're willing to admit it.
  • It shows humility—it's not all about YOU! You are humble enough to recognize that your actions affect others too!
  • It builds trust with people around you because they know that if something goes wrong, you won't try to hide it or make excuses for yourself but instead will own up to your mistakes and work towards fixing them together

When you communicate with love and positivity, it brings out the best in others


When you communicate with love and positivity, it brings out the best in others. When a leader communicates that they care about their employees, it makes people want to work hard for them. The feeling of being appreciated goes a long way toward motivating your team to do whatever it takes to win.

The most important thing is to be kind and understanding of others. You don't have to agree with everyone all the time or always see eye-to-eye on everything, but there’s no need for constant negativity either! If you’re always negative about things then people will start avoiding you because they don’t want to hear any more negativity from you. This can also lead back toward peer pressure since other people may start feeling uncomfortable around such an unhappy person too much so that eventually this negative person doesn't have anyone left around them at all except maybe one or two close friends who still care enough about them despite how unhappy their overall attitude seems like nothing matters anymore anyway because life sucks anyway...


The key to being a good leader is to be authentic, humble and inspiring. Great leaders don't tell people what to do, they inspire them through their actions and their words. The best leaders are constantly learning from others so they can empower their teams by listening, asking questions and helping them navigate what they've learned towards making the most informed decision possible for everyone involved.

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Taylor Symmank

Meet Taylor -- Taylor is a retired NFL athlete that has been featured in major media outlets including Sirius XM Radio, ESPN, FOX Sports, CBS Sports, Bleacher Report, Dallas Morning News, New York Post, Washington Times, and Sports Illustrated. He has spent time with some of the world's top performers in sports and in business. He aims at helping others break through what is keeping them stuck, so they can become winners in every area of their life. He has also been working with Ryan Stewman side by side for some time now and has been helping individuals continually level up their life.
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